Perspective

Perspective

Faith, Personal Testimonies
The race was on and it was a fight to the finish. Each athlete had trained for this momentous occasion in the water. The male S-1 category 500m backstroke swimmers had given it their all at the Tokyo 2020 (21) Olympics! Nevertheless, someone had to come in last place. As the cameras focused on the top-three medalists who were celebrating their individual victories, the last swimmer eventually touched the wall with half an arm. In the Paralympics, the S-1 category has the severest disabilities. These swimmers didn't have legs, and some lacked an arm. Miraculously and courageously, the most disadvantaged swimmer of them all finished dead last with no legs, no arm on one side and only half of an arm on the other side to propel himself. Not a…
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Distracted~My Birthday Reflection

Distracted~My Birthday Reflection

Faith, Personal Testimonies
HAPPY SUMMER, dear friends! I had written this post almost in its entirety a few months ago and am finally giving time to conclude my thoughts to share with you. I decided since my birthday is TODAY, July 30, I would publish it as a gift for all those who read this blog! These reflections come from my pre-marital days but have been ongoing in my heart and life the past few months; I pray they speak to each of you in a special way. I remember being a young girl so caught up in the passion to travel. I longed to see something exotic and unfamiliar. Every place I visited including Bolivia, Mexico, Spain, Costa Rica, Morocco, Argentina and Ecuador seemed appealing. The people were warm and friendly and…
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A Tribute to Moms

A Tribute to Moms

Faith, Teaching Your Children
"Whether you have little baby girls or little baby boys, both will grow to adore you, their mommy. Do you ever contemplate how neat this is? You are like a princess or hero to your children in many ways. You are the one they've learned to go to for every need since they were born, and the one they look to for advice and comfort when they're down. None of us deserve to have such admiration, but there is One who does...Teach them through your example that mommy depends on Jesus for all her 'strength' and that her beauty inside and out comes from Our Heavenly Father. Jesus, allow me to radiate you so that my children will one day realize it is YOU in me." (a passage from chapter…
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CONDEMNED

CONDEMNED

Faith
"One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at him [Jesus]: 'Aren't you the Messiah? Save yourself and us!" But the other criminal rebuked him. 'Don't you fear God," he said, "since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong.' Then he said, 'Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.' Jesus answered him, 'Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise'" (Luke 29:39-43). The ultimate condemnation of Christ The above-mentioned encounter with Jesus falls in stark contrast to the moral compass of our society. One of the ugliest and cruelest moral stances of our culture these days is to label and CONDEMN people. Whether it be…
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LOVE, Sweet LOVE!

LOVE, Sweet LOVE!

Faith, Personal Testimonies, Teaching Your Children
"My favorite holiday is LOVE DAY," said my sweet little Laurelle. "When is that?" I asked. "Valentine's Day, mom!" And my little girl didn't disappoint, with more than twenty hand-made cards! She was thrilled to receive something that day, but her greatest desire was to BLESS others. Laurelle has learned at an early age the joy of GIVING! Jesus Himself was quoted by Paul in Acts 20:35 as having said, "It is more blessed to GIVE than to receive." Daddy's little girl. Photography credit in this post goes to: newphotography11.com As adults, we tend to feel more comfortable giving than receiving many a day. Of course God is the ultimate GIVER, but do I let Him LOVE me? Do I RECEIVE His love on a daily basis? For the past…
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Blinded by the Moment

Blinded by the Moment

Faith, Personal Testimonies
Those of you reading this have made it to 2021, surviving a pandemic and alive to tell the story! Happy New Year and praise God we are here! TREES OF HOPE 2021! Last year I wrote a blog entitled Your Unwritten Goals preceding the 2020 pandemic. I had no idea what we would face, but I urged us to be open and flexible to what unexpected goals we would encounter; I guess it was somewhat prophetic! Who expected the entire country or world for that matter, to begin some form of homeschooling?! I think most parents didn’t have that on their agendas, nor did we realize how much our daily routines and livelihoods would transform. Some people and businesses may have accomplished more than they dreamed while others have lost…
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A Covid Christmas

A Covid Christmas

Faith, Personal Testimonies
The holidays are upon us! Christmas and ringing in the new year with family and friends is a magical season. Make no mistake, this year is starkly different. The traditional gatherings have been almost non-existent between family and friends due to this Covid Christmas. Our house, which is usually a revolving door of Christmas visitors, has been shut tightly for now. Even so, I find myself once again desperate for more PEACE and JOY. How can this be, even in the midst of Covid simplicity? Nevertheless, internal panic erupts while I simultaneously try to press on in my own strength. Every day: STOP (what you are doing). SEE (His creation). BE (still): STOP. SEE. BE. "How can I be such a failure?" runs through my mind. "I should have had…
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The Day We Were Told to STOP

The Day We Were Told to STOP

Faith
Stop our routines, livelihoods, goings and comings, Cancelling shows, the sports games and recitals felt numbing. The weddings, graduations, baby showers and such, Would be put on hold and not thought of much. Yet the one thing we never expected to hear: To stop seeing and hugging those whom we held most dear. We have gone through a lot in our history together, But never had such a strange order to measure. I now know the pain AND the power of CARE, Longing for a time when we’ll once again share. It’s the missing embrace and much-needed affection, The simplest of joys now but a fond recollection. One thing we may have never been told: A hug will always have more value than gold. For the many that pass on…
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Where is Your Identity?

Where is Your Identity?

Faith, Personal Testimonies
Yesterday was another birthday for me! I got up early and went on a jog. I felt my body responding, finally, after nine months of not being able to run. The thought came into my mind: I'm feeling more like "myself." Just as quickly as that thought entered, I realized being a runner was part of how I defined ME and my identity. Me at 38! I then began to reflect on the local woman in Buffalo who was struck at full speed by a police SUV months ago, and is currently a quadriplegic. I pondered the person she was and contemplated the contrast with the circumstances and physical limitations she is now enduring. In extreme cases, such as hers, when your "identity" seems to be stripped away, what is…
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Writing from Weakness

Writing from Weakness

Faith, Personal Testimonies, Teaching Your Children
I write from weakness. My book and my blogs were and are birthed out of my own life filled with joys amidst lifes' hardships and unanswered questions. Nonetheless, the finished product of my writing can misleadingly seem like “I have it all together." Truth be told: I am an imperfect mom with imperfect children. The difference, the game-changer: having a PERFECT and HOLY God who LIVES in me! This means if I can give him my “pen” (or my keyboard), and my thoughts, He can bring godly insight and eternal blessings of encouragement from me, a broken vessel that HE provides HOPE and HEALING to. I chose this random picture of me because one of my kids snapped it without me knowing...not a glamorous picture but it shows imperfect ME.…
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